CY theorem

When you have a thought in your mind,
you would want to think of it over and over by yourself.

You would try to figure it out by yourself.

Random thought lists
What is the problem?
What is the source of the problem?
How should i solve it?
How should i find the problem out?

and in the end turns out only this question spinning in your head

Is there any problem?


sometimes we will be trapped in our own mind map.
those silly one or the frustrating one.


You tend to solve it by going back to the starting point.
and all the memories splashing out like mad flood.
all the bad one or good one comes together.
and it drives you crazy.


We can't expect everything to go as smooth as we want to,
that's why people are trying hard to workout their relationship,
so that the trust and understanding that builds up are strong enough to support them till the end.


Pressure comes only when you faced those unexpected.
it just happened. out of your control.

And you start to think and think and think and think.
endless thinking of the same point lead you to one destination -- disappointment.


You think of those arguments you both had
how you curse each other when arguing
how you two ignites each others "fighting spirit"
how life's going to move on if situation continue to be like this
and bla bla bla.


Little reminder of those incidents
why are there arguments?

think

who's the one that being not understanding enough?
who's the one that just trying to merajuk?
who's the one that stick only to his/her own thought without considering the other one?
who's the one that might accidentally hurt the others feeling?

have you ever thought of why he/she behaves like this?


When you're trying to maintain what you had,
lots of you-think-is-minor-problem could be a major one.

Escapism or blaming other party worsen the situation.


People tend to be pessimistic when they faced difficulties
no hope
that's what they said.

They found no way,
so they give up.


But some people do survived through the hard situation,
strengthen their bond,
understand each other better
and finally
immune to negative forces.


Let him/her know what you are thinking
instead of guessing by yourself and ends up thinking rubbish which will never be true.


Be happy. =)